COURTSHIP

This is an old fashioned word, used by the older generation which is not commonly use by the younger generation. The word used by the present generation is referred to as DATING. Courtship is the time when two people have romantic relationship before marriage, this is also the time where the love bird are said to be madly in love and that they are inseparable from each other.

It is also the process of developing relationship. Before, people tend to have long courtship. Some last for 14, 12, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, etc. this courtship last for this period of time because of some reasons which varies from age, finance, family etc. but the youth of today are not known for long courtship, reason been that most long courtship don’t end up in marriages. Now you get courtship ranging from 6 months to two years and then you hear the wedding bells.

Some school of thoughts are of the opinion that long courtship is better than short courtship, that it will afford the partners enough time to get to know each other well. While some are of the opinion that short courtship is the best that you can never get to know a person totally except you live together, because people are good are concealing their behavior.

Also, it’s a time to learn more about your partners’ do’s and don’t, their dreams and aspiration, weakness and strength. It’s also the time to drop in on your partners unannounced, by so doing you may get them in the habits they don’t want you to know about.

Again, it’s a time to talk to yourself and to make up your mind about the other person, if you are ready for the commitment marriage entails. It’s also when to put into consideration the good qualities of your partner, which are worth having in your life that will make it complete.

Lastly, it’s a time for you to know in your heart that you can’t live without the other person because of the love you feel for the other person and also the time to decide that you won’t be tired of looking at this face for the rest of your life. WHICH BRINGS ME TO THE QUESTION: WHICH WILL YOU ADVICE, LONG OR SHORT COURTSHIP?

RELATIONSHIP .... meaning and importance

Relationships form the basis of human existence, without it humans can’t live peacefully with one another. Relationship makes the world go on, some fail in life not because they are not good at what they do but because they don’t have the right relationship that makes them complete.

Some go into relationship for different reasons, examples are: am into this relationship because I need money and he/she happens to have a lot of it, other are like am into it because am lonely, while some will say because of sex etc. this reasons are going to be obvious to the other person and everything goes sour, the only people who will enjoy are those who are genuinely in love with each other. 

Dating is the word on the lips of both adolescents and adults, they are so particular about who to date, who is dating who, which friend has a guy or lady they are dating and who does not have, which of their friend is having the best of relationship and which of them is having the worst time of her or his life and the list goes on.

Relationship can be very interesting if you meet a guy you like and the two of you hit it of, most people say its chemistry, others says its coincident while some will agree that its fate. Relationship, once in can become paradise on earth, where you enjoy each other and you have the best time of your life. And on the other hand relationship can be hell on earth for some, where horrible things you can only imagine happen.

I wonder why some ladies even guys’ fights to keep relationship that have gone sour.  They become desperate, what I mean by desperate is they are ready to do anything… just to still keep the other person in the relationship, which may not go well with their partners.

Finally, if a relationship has turned sour, for the sake of everyone involved try and let go. There is a saying that if you love someone or something let them go, if it’s yours it will definitely come back to you. This brings me to the question; WILL YOU STAY WITH A GUY YOU BEATS YOU, WITH OR WITHOUT A REASON?